How men and women are totally different creatures!?
Why do so many relationships end in terrible dramas, while other relationships turn out perfectly well-balanced and good? It’s because we tend to confuse “what is a good relationship” with what we are being told in movies, music, books, and stories, instead of what is naturally healthy for a man’s life, a woman’s life, and a relationship. While there are multiple levels of knowledge to have a good relationship (romantically), the absolute core is to know that men and women think totally different period. At this point in time, love alone is not enough to maintain a good relationship.
Men
We are naturally built to think big, have more, to be a leader or king, and to protect what depends on us and what we consider ours. (This can be confused and perceived by women as controlling and demanding, so men need to be very careful to not be misunderstood. Men should never demand anything without giving the woman what she needs for her to trust him, and especially feel safe with him. Safety is #1 for a woman.)
A man’s value?
Men need to become valuable over time, learning after every mistake, accomplishment, or experience in order to grow into a valuable man. This is important to be desired by women because women look for quality. You can not say a young boy would have the same abilities, money and experience as an older man who has lived some lives before, so an older man with more money would be seen as a quality guy – but the dilemma would be – that the older man has a very bad health and fitness lifestyle so he makes you sick while being with him. This, of course, would be seen as a less quality guy over a younger guy who keeps you in perfect health by being with him. So it’s up to the woman to determine “what is quality?” in her opinion.
What is a “winning man” in the eyes of men? – men talking men’s talk
A man who is married with 3 wifeys, 5 girlfriends, 10 kids, is a billionaire, who owns a big piece of land to do whatever he wants, has multiple houses, cars, has big muscles, is strong, can drink most, can eat most, is the best at, etc. It is very shallow and materialistic, a bit GTA6 like, but men are simple creatures and would mostly agree with this as a winning king. It is not what every man will choose and go for to be happy but hearing this from another man would make us all go: “Nice!” (Note: there has to be absolutely no cheating involved; all women agree to take this man to the highest level they can because he is their protector and leader. As soon as men are cheaters, they are not considered winners in the eyes of fellow men! You’d just be a player, but if you get consent from all women, you are considered king.)
Women
They are naturally built to think in quality, creating, nurturing, and safety, to be a good mother, to care for what she considers her and her partners’ creation. (which can be perceived as undercover gold-digging to men, so women need to be very careful approaching men who use their money to buy relations and expect them to see you differently).
A woman’s value
Women don’t need to become valuable, WOMEN ARE BORN VALUABLE! They need to choose to stay valuable by not entertaining random low-quality men too much, and become even more valuable if they find a man and start creating with this man, since they now also have the man’s energy and power that a woman alone couldn’t. A woman can then even create another human just by using her man. This is important to a quality valuable man because he knows he will need a woman when it comes to him expanding his kingdom (family) and if a woman is good at being a good mother, a caring wife, a not available girl to other dudes, then the king-part in him will see you.
What is a “winning woman” in the eyes of women? – just girls talk
Married to 1 quality man (either in finance, health, or family), 1 to 3 kids, is a protector/provider, is good in bed, makes her happy, listens to her and considers her opinion greatly but takes the lead also. Again this is not what every woman will choose and go for to be happy but hearing this from a woman to woman most of them would say: “Nice!” (Note: if a woman would’ve said she has a relationship with 8 other guys she would not be considered as a winner but as a “slut” and gold-digger in the eyes of her fellow women! The fact that a woman had the luck to marry a quality man before becoming a “used car” makes other women see her as a lucky queen!
Different
Now that you see our naturally built-in “wants & needs” are different, obviously, we will have a different look at life and everything in it. The only thing we have to do is learn more about each other so we can be the most natural versions of ourselves and become a better, in-tune species, whatever that might be like. Especially now that all trans people are coming out more and more, we need to be able to live with all our fellow beings in the best way possible. Trans people are men who think like women and women who think like men, so if you haven’t figured yourself out yet imagine how you will figure out a trans person. We will get to that topic aswel soon but for next there’s a “What Women Want” and “What Men Want” article planned.
Also feel free to comment on this topic below! We would like your insights about how women compare to men!
